dear bharatsardaji,

     you had mentioned the most burning issue. And i think not only for sanjhi, but for any utsavs, putting golaks, bowls in front or just aside of shrithakurji to get offering is worst. But Here on this site, very less people will accept this truth. And will continue the same as they are doing till today. No one will speak against this system, neither no one will stop doing such things. But they will rather shout at us. WHO ARE YOU TO SEE THIS THINGS?????????????

Jai Shri Krishna

What is the right way of offering Bhet ? Is Bhet the right term ?

    U need to understand the term BHET. Bhet, means whatever is in one's own property, is been given to other, simply we can name as Donate. If donated, then we cannot expect any returns in terms of the given donation. Recently few months back in india, in the BIhar region, the flood affected the majority parts of the state, thousands of peoples were homeless. That time government body, NGO's, etc came forward and demanded for donations (bhet), for what? to help in rebuilding the affected indians of bihar. Lakhs, or rather Crores of people came forward and gave donations to help the fellow indians, staying in seperate part of the country.

   This is the laukik example, No one expected any returns, after they donated. Just take example of pustimarg, and today's so called haveli's. There we go, and give bhet (donation) to the cash-prasad counter, and then we demand for prasad. Why? Can we demand it? because if given Bhet, then how can we expect returns?

  Kabhi bhi paise ko pheka nahin jata hai. Yaha par o prashna Sanjhi (etc.) ke bich mein shrithakurji ke sanmukh ek bowl rakha jata hai, aur phir log usmein se door se paise phekte hai. Actually what ever this deed is done, is totally wrong practice, not only for pushtimarg, but for the Sanatan - Hindu Culture for any of the Deities.  Prabhu paise ke bhukhe nahin hai, unhe hamare pheke hue paise nahin chahiyen. Kisi ke dekhadekhi pheke hue paise nahin chahiyen. Keval voh chahte hai ki hum unki sacche pushtimargi banke shrimahaprabhuji ke kathan ke anusaar seva kare.

Shesh................

Jai Shri Krishna,

Govindji, many thanks for your kind explanation and clarifications on this matter.

Best Wishes